Do you think that you argue too much with your partner? Well, everybody argues, however, if you want to eliminate the number or arguments that you have, then you should probably try to do something about it.
You know that biting your tongue and not talking about what you feel is probably not the best solution. The tension will only build up inside you and it will only be worse later. However, what you can do is try to become closer to each other. And of course, try to appreciate each other. However, this appreciation needs to be visible. Your partner needs to know that they are appreciated.
The best way to do that is to ask your partner what you can do that would make them feel appreciated. Have an honest conversation, talk about things and tell your partner what would make you feel appreciated.
Once you do this, try to actually make the things your partner tells you about. Only that way will you change something. And that is probably what you want, right? To change your relationship. Or, to fix it. Once and forever. Well, that is probably not possible, but you understand what I mean, right?